To the amazement of most people, my first language was Korean and the only food that I would eat growing up as a kid was Korean until my parents split when I was 5. After living in Korea until I was 3 yrs. old, my dad was ordered to move to the states where we spent some time in NY before residing in CA until I was 10. When my parents divorced, I ended up living with my dad. Thus, no more Korean food!!! Granted, my dad did make attempts to feed us Korean food every once in a blue moon, but it just wasn't the same. I was subjected to American food which took me a long time to get used to! I used to abhor the look of my cereal getting soggy in milk while I was told to eat it. I would sob, throw tantrums, act like I was going to throw up, and have the look of utter disgust on my face when asked to eat my grean beans or peanut butter and jelly sandwhich. It really didn't matter what it was, I just wouldn't eat it! My mother till this day would even tell you that the only thing I liked that was American was Apple Juice. I loved Apple Juice and drank it like it was about to go extinct! At one point in 1st grade, my dad made a special visit to my school just to make sure that the teacher would sit with me in the cafeteria and make sure that I would eat at least most of the contents in my lunch bag because I had gotten sooo skinny. Eventually, I grew out of the poor eating habit and learned to love American food...amen!
Needless to say, anytime I'm around my mom and other Korean relatives, I'm in Korean Food Heaven!!! They brought all kinds of Korean delicacies that I love and my fridge quickly became the refridgerator from the Far East! My kids just looked in amazement as their Korean grandmother and great-grandmother took over the kitchen. Their eyes would gaze over the hot and spicy anchovies, eyes would grow bigger, until you hear the snarl from Tyler, "Ewww...that's nasty!" He had the cutest little look on his face when he said it with his face all scrunched up, then turning to a little smile because he saw me smiling at him. Of course, Tyler didn't even want to try it. He's probably the most picky eater out of all my kids at this point in time. CJ used to hold that title but he's more open now to foods that don't look right to him. All the lectures I've given him on being open to different kinds of foods (even if they don't look right) and healthy foods until he's blue in the face have helped. Madison is the best eating machine out of all three! However, even her "I will eat anything attitude" was challenged by the smell and looks of the Korean dishes that were laid out for all of us.
I can dabble with a little bit of Korean cooking and have given my kids Korean food before, but they're not use to seeing an array of Korean foods sprawled out on the table. To my surprise, they all liked a portion of the food that they had never tried before. However, what surprises me most is their love for Korean-style seaweed called Gim, sometimes spelled kim. The seaweed is roasted with sesame oil and salt seasoning. If you want to see the definition and/or picture of it, go to this link: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gim_(food).
I've seen people quiver at the sheer site of this seaweed when I've introduced it and the get me out of here looks start to hit you between the eyes. Most people I know would dare to try it unless I egged them on or dared their manhood if it was a guy. What puzzles me though that if you were to give my kids the choice between a hamburger and kim, they would choose the kim. I'm proud that my Korean blood is in them but never in a million years would I have imagined that one of my kids (Tyler) would yell to me over and over again, "Daddy, I want kim and rice...Daddy, I want kim and rice...Daddy, I want kim and rice!"
You can buy it at most Asian food markets and I use cooking scissors to cut the roasted seaweed sheets in 4 squares so that you can take one in the palm of your hand and wrap white rice in it. You can add anything you want to it in the wrap like beef and/or vegetables. My kids love it and would probably call it a delicacy if they were old enough to know that word! It was great having my family around! Good food, good laughs, and for this single papa of 3...it was just nice not to have to cook for a day! Oh, and before I forget...thank God for seaweed!
I loved your comments here about seaweed and how the kids loved it, however, kim is not seaweed, it's actually kelp. Yes kelp, the same stuff that is used to make the grittiness of all toothpaste. kim is also what is used by all japanesse to wrap sushi in. It is very good for human digestion and is rich in Vitamin D. Seaweed is a plant that grows from the ocean floor while kelp (kim) grows like an alge on top of a water source.
ReplyDeleteYour comments about the apple juice is very accurate, you loved it as a baby, toddler and small boy. We had to watch your consumption of it because it would give you the runs....smile. As for language, you were bi-lingual from the time your first words were spoken. Both your mother and myself spoke English with you, however, most Koreans would speak to you in Korean. So you never had an language problem, and once we lived in the United States, English was the language you spoke all the time from age three on.
You were nearly 7 and 1/2 years old when your Mom and I divorced, not five. By that time we could see you when you turned sideways...smile.
Yes you were very long and thin from birth. As for your eating habits and likes, you were extremely picky with all foods (including Korean). You had only certain foods that you would like to eat, especially white rice (fried or steamed) with kimchi and kim. You liked to eat fried scrambled eggs and rice, and you liked to eat soups. No you didn't like peanut butter and jelly, but you did like jelly. You liked Jello, Ice Cream, Cookies, Kool Aid, Soda Pop, French Fries, Tator Tots, Mac and Cheese, Fish Sticks, Hamburgers, Hotdogs, Grilled Cheese Sandwhiches, Cakes and Candy. No you didn't like most vegetables or things that were good for you, much like many small children. You did love kimchi and rice though, thats for sure. It would amaze me how you could eat it even when it was really hot and spicy! Wow, it was something to see for such a little guy!
As for me, I do cook Korean food that is just as good or perhaps better than many Koreans. I not only cook Korean Food, but I make everything from scratch, to include by own Go-Chu-Jong (hot pepper paste), and Black Bean Paste. I make two different types of Kimchi, and cook over twenty different Korean dishes to include beef, pork, chicken, and fish. Many of the dishes I cook I learned watching your mother prepare, while others I have learned on my own over the years. It's in your blood so I know you could learn to do it yourself as well. It is time consuming though and somewhat expensive. But you could do it Rob, you could do it. Many korean recipes are on-line as well, some are fairly easy to follow for those of us that can cook.
This is a great blog Son, I really enjoyed reading it, as it was interesting and brought back some memories as well.
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Thanks for the compliment on the blog Dad and I'm glad it brought back some good memories for you. I'm glad that I shared it with you because I obviously learned some new things like my exact age when you and Mom divorced. I thought that you guys had divorced right after your seperation. It's also good to hear your side of the story versus Mom's on what foods I liked and disliked back then. She swears up and down that I would spit out everything she tried to feed me that was American when we all came to the states and that I would only drink Apple Juice...hmmm. Oh, and Dad...lol...I hate to break this to ya...Kelp is Seaweed! Just look at the definition below and look up Gim (food) online. :)
ReplyDeleteKelp - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Kelp are large seaweeds (algae) belonging to the brown algae (class Phaeophyceae) ... Kelp is also used frequently in seaweed fertiliser, especially in the ...
Love ya Dad!
Rob
Rob,
ReplyDeleteThis brought tears to my abnormally dry eyes. It's amazing what you are doing raising your children by yourself. I wish more men had the brass ones it takes to do what you are doing.
Karen OP